About a year ago when Luke and I considered who to be in our wedding we ran into a problem. The only little boys we knew who were old enough to be ring bearers lived out of state or would not be able to come to the wedding. We didn’t want to put pressure on our out-of-state friends and family who had little boys, some of whom already had wedding responsibilities. So to make planning less complicated, we decided to forgo the idea of a ring bearer at all!
Instead we chose Makayla , a close friend of the family, to be our flower girl and bear both job titles and responsibilities.
Makayla is the most intelligent, mature, and fun girl I’ve ever been around. Back in California, the two of us had girl nights watching disney movies, making cupcakes or pizza, and talking all evening.
When I asked Makayla to be my flower girl it seemed the adults were more excited then her about the idea, but she said yes. So we took her to a store that specialized in formal children’s wear. You could tell she was beginning to warm up to the idea of being a flower girl when she started putting on pretty dresses. Finally Makayla tried on a dress that she didn’t want to change out of. She obviously felt like a very important princess in it. With no hesitation we bought her the dress knowing she was now ready and comfortable with being the flower-girl.
The day of my wedding Makayla patiently sat as her mom did intricate braiding of her hair. I was close by also having my hair done.
When wedding time came, Makayla took on her role like a pro. Dropping flowers from her basket, she went down the aisle with a smile. But her job as a ring bearer meant she also carried in her basket a wooden box my dad made with our wedding rings in it.
At the end of the aisle she carefully handed the wood box to the best man and walked over to sit with her parents. It all worked out perfectly.
So Thank You Makayla for being an amazing flower girl and being a big part of our special wedding day!!
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